Tuesday, January 18, 2011

i need someone to talk...

It's a bit ironic. All i ever wanted was to work in the morning... First with a company that is well known for 100% customer service and award winning home grown talent. It was enjoyable and worth while however there were people who will really make your day miserable and sometimes
like hell. I was holding my decisions before leaving the company but for some reasons i decided to leave. Then, i was bum for almost a month. I've been thinking a lot, things that i want to do and my plan. Another opportunity came, again as a supervisor, morning job. I was tenacious before starting my week but when i started my work today, it feels the same way when i started with my first morning job. Someone told me that it's all in the mind. Try to fake things that you like your work and later you'll love it too. Probably, I was still looking for someone to prevent or someone who i look up to but that person left me.

I really need to be strong and hold tight to whatever i have now.

Hold tight Rjay... Hold tight... All your plans and dreams will come true... Just hold on tight...

Those are the words that i kept telling to myself...

Now, tears were flowing to my eyes while writing these words...

Because the truth is still don't know what to do...

So help me God...

Monday, January 17, 2011

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i see

When he left me, i decided to live alone which did not work out. Now i knew that no man is an island. But my tragic love story is another post that i have to decide. This is about a person not really much related nor we still that line of deep friendship. In some ways we have similarities which i noticed a bit annoying that i fail to feel when i was in that shoes. here are some traits that we share: big dreamer have high hopes show off let see, months after i knew that person i realized that during my younger years i was much focused with my friends. no. one were good for me except my friends. i enjoy cooking for them. hanging out and almost spending every moment with them. that delimited made me complete and happy. i fail to realize that there was someone in leaving behind. i focused to much with my friends not knowing that I'm making one person's life miserable. i did that door almost a year. just for of to found out that the people that i spent most of my time will leave of too during my darkest times. i felt that i made a complete fool out of myself. i just wish that, that person will not del or experience the same way that i did. i almost lost everything. one sad story of my life. new year and trying to get a new life.
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Friday, January 14, 2011

Happy Day

Today just wanna share the things that i did random...

Went malling for almost 8 hours just pigging-out (qual eggs, buko juice, pasta, donut, burger, fries, hotdog, softdrinks, coffee and chicken)

Bet on lotto which i really don't do. Sincdd i lack experience anm dunno whjt to do, the lotto dealer just told me to have random numbers. (i'll check the winning combination tomorrow)

Played lucky cards and won 500 bucks. At that moment i felt like a certified gambler. Yehey i call stepping out of the box.

On the sane side... I accomplish a lot of things. Renew my passport,
Gather and scan all my credentials (diploma, tor, valid ids, employment certificate, nbi clearance, etc). Then, on my way home i also recieve a call that i was accepted as a team lead and would be reporting tomorrow for a job offer... Congratulations to me

I also recieved several messages that i was shortlisted for working abroad in which the interview will be on the last week of January.

Today i am happy. All my plans seemed to be on the right track.

I an living the day at a time at the same time planning ahead of time. Might seemed complicated and not coherent but the good thing is that everything is on the right track. I am learned to take time and think on the things that i want to do with my life and enjoy life not thinking about my future and it worked.

Most especially, i visitde His house to give thanks and praise. Always telling that He knows what are the things that i an thankful for and the things i wanna do in the future. And i know that everything will happen as plan in due time. I just have a little more patience and trust.

Happy day today.
I an very thankful and wishing that this delimited will stay Forever.

Thank you so much for all the blessings com positive things that is coming into my life.

Thank you lord for giving me wisdom at talent T9 do the things that i Usually you doing.

Good night everyone and have a great day.
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Monday, January 10, 2011

plano, pangarap, at iba pa

Heto na yung feeling na parang hindi ko alam kung saan ako papunta, ano ang gusto ko, anu ulit ang mga pangarap ko.

Ngayon, iniisip ko kung anu nga bang mali ang magawa ko bakit ako parang nahihirapan.

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Saturday, January 8, 2011

foods

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P!nk - Raise Your Glass

So raise your glass if you are wrong
In all the right ways... we will never be never be!
Anything but loud



Extra 2k lang...

It's a bit frustrating today... Just when I expected that I'll not qualify for any work abroad then here comes the agencies that I applied for asking for my credentials...

I have everything ready except for one "minor" issue... PASSPORT RENEWAL...

Well, it's not a problem, have an appoinment this Wednesday for renewal however I need to come up with additional Php2,000. Last December I have over spent a bit he he he...

Just find a way to answer all those needs....

Monday
13:00 interview with employer as an Executive Assistant for Saudi
15:00 interview with the employer as a Hotel Receptionist for Doha Qatar

Wednesday
contract signing as a TL for a Call Center Industry.


I still have trust that all my plans will push through...
Thoughts become reality

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Food! food! Food!

Bagong Pagsisimula

Buti na lang may blog ako. Pede ko isulat lahat ng nararamdaman ko.

Alam mo ba na meron akong katangahan na ginawa. We decided to be apart (my long time partner for 8 y ears) and up to now 'di pa rin ako maka move on sa amin. We still have constant communication and sometimes I let my guard down and still text my ex-partner that i wish we could be together again.

Medyo stupid talaga ako. Hopeless Romantic and still never loose hope eventhough I know na di na kami magiging kami ulit.

Sunday, November 21, 2010

learning how to cook

One of my interest is how to co different dishes and make my own twist in it. So far so good, all of them ara edible. Ha ha ha
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Thursday, October 28, 2010

Monday, October 25, 2010

7 months

Been a while since I've visited my bloi. I'm still single ha ha ha. Still waiting for the one who'll i grow up with but for now I'm enjoying myself.
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Monday, June 28, 2010

Thoughts become reality

Good morning!!!

I've been dreaming of having this since last year but due to some fortuitous events I missed a lot of things that I was supposed to give to myself... I even don't have a birthday gift for myself last year. Well, we all have to live with it and for sure I'm not the only one who experiences ups and downs...

I just wish that before my birthday comes or passed I would have one of the following:


One - A new phone!!!
(and yes!!! I've been wanting HTC Desire even before it was released)




















Second - A Laptop
I'm not very particular with the brand (best suitable for my budget without sacrificing the features)




















Third - A DSLR
Any brand also will do... (pref. either Nikon or Sony LOL)






















Last - To work abroad
Although I don't want to rush things but probably by first quarter of next year... I still need to contemplate and convince myself.


















I know in due time all on this will be given to me... It just need a little perseverance, attitude, hard work and a lot of positivity in life....

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Tuesday Vargas' Wedding

The most meaningful, truthful and happy vows that I heard...
For those who are hopeless romantic please watch...




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Going/Getting Over…

For the past 3 months I’ve been experiencing rough times… Well what I’m talking about is I’m emotionally and financially drained… As in I have to adapt to a lot of things. I’m not the one I used to think I was. And what’s true about this experience is you’ll really know the people who will truly be with you along the way.


I’ve been thinking a lot of things on how to cope with my situation. Been doing things that I don’t usually do, been asking a lot of favor and been holding myself so that I won’t break into pieces… Then, I said to myself, “Boy you truly need to wake up, step up and do something.”


I need to make-up with my decisions… Here comes I planned to work abroad, and for some it is an opportunity that I’ll be missing. Well, to tell you a little bit of it. I the end of July of this year, originally I was about to work overseas, my credentials are really, passport already renewed and all I have to say is YES.


By the way, I’m currently working with one of the most prestigious financial company in the world (if I may say so) I learned a lot of things with my stay and I sad to say I’ll be leaving that company by the end of July.


This is a glimpse of what I’ll be missing…




















































































































Now, what I’ve learned is that whatever bumpy road that I’m in at some point in time it will stop. And true enough, at last financially speaking I only have few debts to settle and hoping that everything will be over by end of July (let’s all cross our fingers)



The other one is that for the longest time I’ve been working at night and I think I can’t do it anymore (signs of aging… lol). So, I have accepted a position in other company. I don’t want to preempt anything but I already signed a contract and will be starting right after I served my resignation (until July 24) and will start working with my new company by July 29 (weeewwww, how tough life can be… you really can’t have a break.. I’m wishing for at least a week rest). But I think this is better than not working at all.



Friends kept telling me that, if they were in my situation they rather stay in our province. Though living in the province is somewhat living a good life. There are things that I’m not ease with it. That’s why I rather live a tough life. Just want to prove something… Let’s just pray that I will get over with all the things that I’m going through…



Thursday, June 24, 2010

5 Easy Ways to Keep Your Brain Sharp

Why not....

Everyone is forgetful, but as we age, we start to feel like our brains are slowing down a bit—and that can be the most frustrating thing in the world. Luckily, research shows there is a lot you can do to avoid those “senior moments." Whether it's relaxation or adding certain foods to your diet, read on for some techniques worth trying.

1. Chill Out

The brain remembers better when it’s relaxed, say researchers at the California Institute of Technology, so take a few minutes each day to breathe deeply or meditate. "The positive of meditation is you have focused concentration and relaxation taking place at the same time," says Elizabeth Edgerly, PhD, spokesperson for the Alzheimer's Association. "Researchers believe those things are good because they're developing new connections for your brain cells."

2. Focus on the Future

People who regularly made plans and looked forward to upcoming events had a 50 percent reduced risk of Alzheimer’s disease, according to a recent study. But don’t worry if your calendar isn’t overflowing with life-changing events. Something as simple as setting a goal to have a weekly coffee date with a friend (and keeping it) will do. "Psychologically it keeps us motivated," Dr. Edgerly says. "There's evidence that people who have a purpose in life or who are working on long-or short-term goals appear to do better." In other words, keep your brain looking forward.

3. Go for a Walk

Mildly elevated glucose levels (even if you don’t have diabetes) can harm the area of the brain that helps you form memories, say Columbia University researchers. Experts agree that physical activity can help get blood glucose down to normal levels. In fact, the strongest evidence is regarding the effect of physical activity on the brain. Dr. Edgerly says, "When you exercise, you release chemicals that are good for your brain. It's like a mini fountain of youth in your brain, and the only way you can get it is exercise." In other words, when you take care of your heart, you take care of your brain.

4. Snack on Berries

Blueberries have compounds called anthocyanins that help communication between brain cells and appear to improve memory, says Robert Krikorian, PhD, professor of psychiatry and behavioral neuroscience at the University of Cincinnati. In general, Dr. Edgerly says the darker the fruit or vegetable, the better. She adds, "It's a healthy, well-rounded diet, especially one that mimics a Mediterranean diet, and that's fish, lots of fruits and vegetables, and red wine, everyone likes the red wine part."

5. Learn Something New

Take a Spanish class online, join a knitting club, or learn to play poker. A UC Irvine study found that mental stimulation limits the debilitating effects of aging on memory and the mind. But the best thing for your brain, Dr. Edgerly insists, is when you combine learning something new with physical activity. "It should be something like dancing, or coaching a sport. Or go learn golf with your girlfriends. That sort of thing is even better for your brain than, say, a crossword puzzle.”


-Woman's Day Staff

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

And then the countdown begins…




Just this morning I spoke with my supervisor and told him that I have plans of leaving the company. Of course, there’s a lot of explaining to do… Why, why, why… I just told him, “it’s just human nature” LOLz. Kidding aside, there are a lot of reasons why I decided to leave.

I have three reasons why I stay in a company: If I’m happy, if I’m secured with my position and if the company I work with is still healthy. If two of them fail for whatsoever reason, it only means that there’s no use of staying.

Well, already have two reasons (actually all of them)… I’m no longer happy with my work, I’m not secured with my position and it seems that it’s not healthy anymore.

Of course, before making a very difficult decision, I also asked my supervisor if it’s possible if I can transfer to another department. And the qualifications are… Good ratings (scorecard), no attendance issues and with the permission of our manager. To my disappointment, for now, transferring to other line of business seems impossible and the only option is resignation… So there, I’ll be giving my resignation on the 30th and by July 30th I’ll be leaving my dream company…

What I realized during my stay with my current company is that sometimes dreams do change… And how much I’m positive with my outlook with the company situation forces you to decide something to go somewhere and build new dreams.

I’ll be missing my peeps, friends and sups… But we have to make choices and I know whatever choices I made it is for my own good…

I just need to go out from my comfort zone and embrace a new life…

Let’s just be positive…

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Crawl - Chris Brown

Great comeback... Good song!!!





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Everybody sees it's you
I'm the one that lost the view
Everybody says we're through
I hope you havn't said it too

So where do we go from here
With all this fear in our eyes
And where can love take us now
And we've been so far down
We can still touch the sky

If we crawl
'till we can walk again
And we'll run
Until we're strong enough to jump
And we'll fly
Until there is no end
So let's crawl...crawl....crawl
Back to love
Yeah
Back to love
Yeah

Why did I change the pace
Hearts were never meant to race
Always felt the need for space
And now I can't reach your face

So where are you standing now
Are you in the crowd of my voice
Love can't you see my hand
Lend me one more chance
We can still have it all

So we'll crawl
Till we can walk around
And we'll run
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So let's crawl....crawl....crawl
Back to love
Yeah
Back to love
Yeah

Everybody sees it's you
Well I never wanna lose that view

So we'll crawl
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So let's crawl....crawl...(crawl)

So we'll crawl
Till we can walk again
Then we'll run
Until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly
Until there is no end
So let's crawl....crawl...(crawl)

Back to love....

Monday, June 21, 2010

Di Lang Ikaw - Juris






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Pansin mo ba ang pagbabago
Di matitigan ang iyong mga mata
Tila hindi na nananabik
Sa ‘yong yakap at halik

Sana’y malaman mo
Hindi sinasadya
Kung ang nais ko ay maging malaya

Di lang ikaw
Di lang ikaw ang nahihirapan
Damdamin ko rin ay naguguluhan
Di lang ikaw
Di lang ikaw ang nababahala
Bulong ng isip, ‘wag kang pakawalan
Ngunit puso ko ay kailangan kang iwan


Pansin mo ba ang nararamdaman
Di na tayo magkaintindihan
Tila hindi na maibabalik
Tamis ng yakap at halik

Maaring tama ka
Lumalamig ang pagsinta
Sana’y malaman mong ‘di ko sinasadya

Di lang ikaw
Di lang ikaw ang nahihirapan
Damdamin ko rin ay naguguluhan
Di lang ikaw
Di lang ikaw ang nababahala
Bulong ng isip, ‘wag kang pakawalan
Ngunit puso ko ay kailangan kang iwan

BRIDGE:
Di hahayaang habang buhay kang saktan
Di sasayangin ang iyong panahon
Ikaw ay magiging masaya
Sa yakap at sa piling ng iba

Di lang ikaw
Di lang ikaw ang nahihirapan
Damdamin ko rin ay naguguluhan
Di lang ikaw
Di lang ikaw ang nababahala
Bulong ng isip, ‘wag kang pakawalan
Ngunit puso ko ay kailangan kang iwan